4 Circles Approach to Health and Wellness (in a Pandemic)

Peak brain health and optimal wellness lie within the Four Circles of a whole life approach (Amen Clinics).

At all times, and most significantly when things feel out of our control, confusing and unpredictable - such as during this pandemic - we must remember the importance of focusing on what we CAN control; what we CAN understand.

We can control our own thoughts and behaviors and understand the biological, psychological, social and spiritual solutions, to actively improve OUR OWN health and wellness.

The Four Circles Approach - Dr. Daniel Amen, Amen Clinics

We can live a joyful life - our best life - despite circumstances we find challenging by incorporating and optimizing the Four Circles of a Whole Life: Psychological, Biological, Social and Spiritual.

Let’s break it down.

1) Psychological Circle

  • Just as you are disinfecting surfaces, your hands, more than ever - you need to disinfect your thoughts! ANTS (Automatic Negative Thoughts) contribute to so much of your daily stress, and they cause anxiety, depression, anger. Why? Because these thoughts are lying to you! ANTS make you mad, nervous, feel like you are losing control, and they hurt you and make you sad. If you never challenge or question these thoughts, you believe them. But, you can train these thoughts to be positive and hopeful.

  • TRY THIS: The next time you feel hurt, sad, angry, out of control, nervous, anxious, stressed - write down your thoughts, what you are thinking. Then ask yourself these questions: Is what I am thinking TRUE? Can I know it’s absolutely true? How do I feel when I have the thought? How do I treat other people when I have this thought? Who would I be without the thought?

2) Biological Circle

  • You’ve heard it all before: exercise regularly, sleep well and eat properly. Let’s break this down!

  • TRY THIS: Choose at least one suggestion in each category (exercise, sleep, nutrition) to implement into your weekly routine. Write these down! Post them somewhere you see them everyday - fridge, bathroom mirror,…

  • Exercise:

    • Set a goal of 10,000 steps per day.

    • 3-4 times a week do some aerobic activity such as a fast walk (“walk like you are late” - as Dr. Amen says). You can start at 15 minutes of fast walking, and work your way up to 30 minutes.

    • If you are feeling adventurous, you can try burst training (example: walk 4 minutes then run 1 minute). For a sample burst training workout and to read more on the benefits of burst training, see: https://www.amenclinics.com/blog/walk-your-way-to-mental-health/

    • Practice some form of balance exercise, controlled movement, a few times a week. Examples of this are yoga, tai chi. Currently, there are many classes and videos available online so you can practice in your own home.

    • Find an activity you enjoy! Hiking, swimming, cycling, boxing, dancing, kayaking, anything active!

  • Sleep:

    • Sleep affects our mood, memory and ability to concentrate. If your sleep amount, schedule, quality are not adequate, the first thing you can do is write down the things you think are affecting your sleep. Examples: inactive during day, going to bed at different times and waking up at different times (lack of routine), eating high glycemic carbs before bed, consuming caffeine later in the day, bedroom is not dark enough (affecting circadian rhythm), alcohol consumption, pain, stress, noise, trouble falling asleep, trouble staying asleep, and so many more. Once you have determined what you think is affecting your sleep, we begin to find ways to overcome these concerns and create a sleep routine conducive to a restful, adequate sleep. Contact krista@peakbrainhealth.com for FREE guidance in establishing your sleep routine.

    • Decreasing alcohol consumption and eliminating caffeine consumption (particularly after 3pm) can help with sleep.

    • Natural supplements can also be helpful. Melatonin (naturally produced in our bodies) can help you to fall asleep. Others can help you to stay asleep longer for a more restful and rejuvenating sleep. Some supplements can only be taken for limited time periods or can interfere with medications. Please ask a professional for guidance.

  • Nutrition:

    • Did you know that your brain is 80-85% water? So if you are dehydrated it is bad for your brain. You need to drink plenty of water each day for overall health and wellness, and to keep your brain functioning optimally. How much water?

    • Here are some basics that you have heard many times before. How about you choose a few to try? Are you ready to cut down on fast food, decrease your sugar intake, cut out diet sodas, and begin consuming more high fibre carbs (whole grains) and green leafy vegetables? Your body and mind will thank you!

    • For some excellent nutritional information, check out “Dr. Amen’s 10 Simple Food Rules to Guarantee a Healthier Life” at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZZcfld1-dQ

  • In biology, we study pathogens, viruses, bacteria… more commonly known as “germs”. Washing your hands frequently is a really good way to avoid picking up germs, particularly illness-causing germs, and carrying them with you. Just as you need to disinfect your thoughts (Psychological Circle), you need to disinfect your hands.

3) Social Circle

  • We are social beings. Your health and wellness is greatly affected by your social circle. You need to be sure that during this time of limited connection with others, due to pandemic restrictions, that you are connecting with people who encourage and support you to be the best version of yourself. Who you spend the most time with is who has the greatest influence and impact on you, your growth, and who you will become. Who are you spending your time with?

  • Although we feel isolated at times, you need to connect ‘safely’ with people. You can connect with loved ones, family and friends via phone, video chat, in-person outside (if your region allows for outside socially distanced visits), and any other way your area currently allows social connection during the pandemic. Who are you connecting with?

  • You can also join any number of online clubs, groups, classes that suit your interests. These are available (many for free) on Meetup at https://www.meetup.com/ or Eventbrite at https://www.eventbrite.ca/ or https://www.eventbrite.com/ and many other sites including Facebook. You could also start your own group!

  • TRY THIS:

    • Write down (a) Who you are spending most of your time with (b) Who you are connecting with regularly (in-person, by phone, video chat) (c) What groups you are involved in currently that appeal to your interests.

    • Then, put a “+” next to the positive social connections (those who encourage you to be the best version of yourself) and a “ -” next to the questionable social connections. Make changes to your social circle, if necessary.

  • Write down (a) Who you would like to/should spend more time with (b) Who you would like to/should connect with more often (c) Clubs, groups classes you would like to join/start to improve your social circle. Make changes if necessary.

4) Spiritual Circle

  • Who are you? Why are you here? Why are you on this planet? What are you meant to do, to contribute? So many questions… To even begin to think about this, you need to be able to temporarily clear your mind of the everyday stuff: to-do lists, stress at work/school/home, ANTs (Automatic Negative Thoughts),…You can accomplish this with some deep-breaths, a guided meditation, some journaling, hand-warming. Once you have calmed your thoughts, ask yourself:

    • Do I have a sense of meaning and purpose? Or, do I feel I need to discover my meaning and purpose, why my life matters?

    • Do I have a connection to a higher power? Who am I accountable to?

    • What is my connection to past and future generations?

    • Values… what are mine? Do I need to clarify them? Am I living true to them?

  • TRY THIS: The spiritual circle can be the most difficult and challenging for some. That is ok. Do not judge, do not allow the ANTs to enter and take over. Do what you can with the questions above, and feel good about it. Celebrate you.

You can take the steps toward improving your own health and wellness, by using some of the tools in the Four Circles of a whole life approach (based on Amen Clinics Four Circles). You have the control. The current unpredictable world pandemic situation does not have to negatively affect your personal health and wellness. It all starts with you!

Krista Hill

Certified Brain Health Practitioner, Amen Clinics

Resource Links:

https://www.peakbrainhealth.com/all-services and https://www.peakbrainhealth.com/contact-us - Peak Brain Health is an outpatient health and wellness clinic providing customized, science-based and proven brain health approaches to patients of all ages. At Peak Brain Health, it all starts with you. We use a holistic approach, looking at your biological, psychological, social and spiritual influences to get a complete picture of who you are as a person. We provide the tools and services you need to feel confident, complete and hopeful for the future. We are dedicated to helping you find the answer to you.

https://www.wellcan.ca/ - WellCan offers free well-being resources to help Canadians develop coping strategies and build resilience to help deal with uncertainty, mental health and substance abuse concerns during the COVID-19 pandemic.

https://ca.portal.gs/ - Wellness Together Canada connects you to mental health and substance use support, resources, and counseling with a mental health professional.

The spiritual side of peak brain health

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Have you ever wondered what the word spiritual actually means? If you ask two people there's a good chance you'll get two different answers. This is because spirituality and its expression are unique to each individual. Ever been a part of a conversation where someone says spirituality is how they define it and how they live it? Ultimately, these are personal choices.

While there are many ways to describe spirituality, one way has to do with how one relates to their thoughts and beliefs, value of self, and an allowance of grace into their life. Or put another way, it’s a sense of connection with something greater than the self. It's an experience that involves connecting with oneself (i.e. oneness) through reflection, meditation, yoga, or time in nature, etc. So in essence, spirituality is what's meaningful to you such that it seems to lighten or enrich your spirit.

For some, spirituality could include peace and harmony with nature and humanity. Others feel spirituality via their music, art, values and principles, meditation, loving kindness, or connection to faith in a higher power. If you are wondering what truly gives your life purpose and meaning, keep in mind that this can change over time. For instance, this can specifically change after a big life event, be it positive or negative.

There are helpful ways to consider the role of spirituality in your life. Give yourself some time for self-reflection as this is a great way to discover what truly matters to you. Try answering some of the following specific questions, paying attention to what strengthens your spirit:

  • What am I thankful for?

  • When do I feel fully alive?

  • What gives my life meaning? What life experiences are meaningful to me?

  • Is a relationship with a higher power important to me?

  • What drives me to do the things that I do? Why?

  • When I was a kid what were my hopes and dreams? Do they still apply?

  • Do I have an inner burning desire in life to do or be something else in life? What's in my heart? Be honest with yourself.

So how does all this specifically affect the brain? One study mentions how it furthers a growing body of research about spirituality and its connection to brain processing. The study findings indicate that spiritual experiences shift perception, and can moderate the effects of stress on mental health.

The study saw decreased activation in the parts of the brain responsible for stress and increased activity in the parts of the brain responsible for connection with others. A sense of union with someone or something outside of oneself and community engagement has been found to support a robust recovery from substance use disorders as well as other behavioral health issues.

Is this a good time to think about adding something to your life to improve your spiritual wellness? Perhaps a spiritual practice can help you connect in a new way with what is meaningful to you.

Spiritually,

-Kevin

Kindness Leads to Happiness

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Are you kind? Do you practice kindness? If not, how does one actually "do" kindness? Let's explore...

Starting with a basic definition: Kindness is the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate. Does this describe you? If not, why not? Does kindness sound like something you would like to incorporate into your daily life? Holistically, wouldn't kindness help make this world a better place to live? If you're on board, then read on...

Did you know that there is a World Kindness Day celebrated every year on November 13? A simple Google search will pull up several organizations that are resourceful for day-to-day kindness information. One example is the Random Acts of Kindness organization which states on its website:

Imagine a world.

Where people look out for each other.

Where we all pay it forward.

Where success is measured in selfless acts.

Where kindness is the philosophy of life.

Kindness is an important value that not everyone has (but I certainly wish it was more widespread). You may generally notice that some people are more kind than others. Why are some people so kind, and how does this relate to happiness? Does kindness actually lead to happiness?

Yes, studies have shown that practicing kindness by giving to others (rather than receiving) can lead to more happiness. What's even more exciting is that this can lead to a virtuous cycle which may increase our lasting happiness. According to one study completed by Harvard and University of British Columbia researchers and published in the Journal of Happiness Studies, two happiness findings were apparent according to the authors:

  1. People in general felt happier when they recalled a time they bought something for someone else. People felt even happier buying for others than when they remembered buying something for themselves.

  2. The happier people felt about their past generosity, generally the more likely they were in the present to choose to spend on others instead of themselves.

So then how do we get to a point where we are practicing more kindness, especially if we feel like we need more of it within ourselves in order to be kinder to others? Kind behavior tends to come to us more naturally when we’re moving towards compassion and connection with others.

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Intentionally practicing kindness in our everyday lives, even on days when we’re not in a particularly generous mood, can go a long way toward turning kindness into a habit. That’s largely because of the way kindness tends to breed happiness: The good feelings serve to reinforce our kind acts and make us more likely to want to perform them in the future.

To state this another way - making concerted effort to perform more kind and generous acts in the short term tends to increase the amount of kindness we perform over the long term. Wow, when broken down it sounds pretty simple hey?

Maximizing the positive effects of generosity can help with kindness as well. One strategy is to take the initiative to learn about the impact of your generosity, which can elicit contagious feelings of joy. For example, see this video of a bone marrow donor meeting the little girl whose life he saved here (p.s. get out the kleenex!)

“Doing a kindness produces the single most reliable increase in momentary well-being than any other exercise we have tested”.

–Martin Seligman

So get out there and practice kindness. Let's all chip in individually to help make this world a better place. As Tim McGraw's song Humble and Kind says:

Don't take for granted the love this life gives you

When you get where you're goin'

Don't forget turn back around

And help the next one in lineAlways stay humble and kind.

Stay kind,

-Kevin